30th July 2013 - 18:52 | Oxford UK, Oxford | Age 40
Next visit: Oct.
So now it's time to find a new submissive cutie for the most fun role-play-time imaginable.
I have a suggestion that you might find interesting.
If you know of Anais Nin then you will be familiar with her writings. If not, here's a sample of her work:
“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a
woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”
If you liked the Anais quote, then read on. If not, stop here!
You see, I am seeking an attractive, accomplished and intelligent woman who has submissive tastes, or at least, is sub-curious and wants to explore. You, perhaps, from what I read and see on your profile.
Here's why. I'm an attractive, dominant, and respectable professor who just loves to spend time with a cute and intelligent younger lady. Yes, for real. If you are bored with the young guys and want to experience something more adventurous, satisfying and fun, let's talk.
I'm friendly, fun, sophisticated, and respectful and I enjoy an engaging conversation with an intelligent, attractive woman. I totally respect the fact that you work hard and I am sure you don't want to waste your valuable and limited time with an unengaging date. Neither do I, my life is also busy - but not so busy I don't have time to find fun! We could have a really interesting discussion. This is part of my objective, because enjoying a civilized and stimulating conversation is a delightful experience. I find formalistic and thin conversations to be very unrewarding and if we meet, I guarantee we'll have a more interesting interaction than that.
And then, if we find that we like each other, leave the door open to enjoying a truly satisfying dessert. This delicious treat consists of an exploration of the more intriguing and gratifying erotic arts. I know you don't want to be one of the rumor-mongering frat boy braggart victims! But you might be curious about the adventures I have in mind. Because they are really, truly delicious. For example, I like to do the professor/student scene, enjoy a little roleplay fun. It's amazing fun. It's also very private. I'm firm, dominant and very experienced when it counts, and it can be such a delight to have a real man take charge at that time. Like a professor/advisee conference, so apparently respectable but potentially naughty and fun :)
What girl wants a doofus who isn't in tune, who doesn't appreciate the art and beauty of his partner, who disrespects her? Alternatively, what about those milquetoast NewAge guys...aarggh! What red-blooded girl wants to be fumbled, or pawed at, or worst of all, asked continually about what she likes, and how, and when by an underconfident male who isn't ready for her... Without exception, if things go this far, precautions are necessary. But safe sex doesn't have to be boring, yeah, so-what sex.
I know it's not easy to find a real man who is responsible, respectful and considerate as well as experienced, trustworthy and knowledgeable. I'm not an ersatz, capitalized "Dom" who masks his underconfidence with aggression or controlling behavior or who believes that gratuitous pain and humiliation are satisfying. But on the other hand, I'm not a pleader, a wannabe, a whiner, an ignoramus, or a milquetoast.
I am friendly, fun, easy to get along with, and when it
counts, truly masterful. I have the kind of experience that can really expand your mind and if the moment comes, I know how to make your back arch and your toes curl - and then some. I am also in tune with my partner's experience - I can sense how ready you are for the next step, and if you prefer mild submission, that's great. Or, if you're ready for something more adventurous, I have scenarios that will make
your mouth water. Not all my activities are conventional, I bet you've only ever read of some of them in erotic fiction. I'm sufficiently experienced to make you drip with lust :) Obviously, that's one of my goals - remember Anais! - but not the only one.
Incidentally, I do not mean that you desire crudeness or idiocy. To me, domination is very artistic. It involves an exchange of power, which must be agreed and negotiated. It cannot be ordered upfront. It involves respect and confidence, enjoyment in the companionship outside the bedroom, engaging conversation, stimulating mind and
spirit. This is not opposed to indulging in roleplay in the bedroom, it is highly complimentary.
These predispositions are very elemental. Even the age difference is key to the aura of dom/sub exchange. At first it can seem strange, I know. I did not understand my own desires to exercise mild domination until I was a little older. It takes time to learn and accept one's inclination, and much more time to develop the skills and rapport needed to indulge it. It takes time to find the balance between appreciating and respecting a woman for her character and intellect and skills, and being masterful with her in very satisfying ways.
As for submission, a woman simply cannot conceive of it, and make it happen, with younger men. Younger guys cannot deliver the blend of confidence, experience, worldliness and self-knowledge that is necessary to project an aura of real dominance. Imagine a 20 or 22 year old writing this... close, but no cigar. I couldn't have done so when I was that age, for sure. Experience, maturity, knowledge and self-awareness are all important to accepting what we like and learning to seek and enjoy it.
I visit from time to time and if we have fun, we can have more. It also means I'm not part of any local rumor mill and if you're ready to play, it stays private. We enjoy the scenario, without worry.
Of course this is a little unconventional, and yes, I know, maybe mildly outrageous. We wouldn't exactly be talking like this if we met socially or professionally...I am very responsible and respectable in public and in professional settings, I never approach a lady like this. That's why it never happens unless we've begin our dialog here first. But still, you must admit the idea is more entertaining than usual and, subject to some face time working well, you see it could even be a truly delightful experience.
So why not write me at least, and let's talk. I bet you'll find our conversation beats waiting for the usual emails from the frat boys and wannabes, those "hey babe, Ur hott wanna do me" txt-speak, or those "Hola!" emails that say exactly nothing....so, don't be shy! :)
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