30th August 2011 - 15:10 | Manchester UK, North West/Lancs. |
I've just come to the end of an affair, which was lovely whilst it lasted.Unfortunately some women seem to change their minds about what they want from the 'relationship' after agreeing at the outset that it can only be something supplementary to what we already have with our long term partners.
I love my wife very much,but realised long ago that my sexual needs were much greater than hers.I've never laid any blame on her, that's just the way it is. As I'm not the kind to sleep around with all and sundry, I decided that an affair with a married woman with similar needs and who had no wish to leave her husband would fulfil all my needs.
I've now had three affairs over the last ten years. Each one was fulfilling on a sexual basis,but also on a friendship level.There has to be a personal connection for it to work. Each affair ended amicably as I never 'cheated' on them or moved the goalposts as regards what I was looking for from the relationship.
I wish that I could stop myself, but I'm addicted to the deceit and the secrecy involved with having an affair. The illicit meetings at hotels, kissing passionately and making love for hours on end before returning to my normal life. However now that I've experienced these things I find that I'm 'hooked' on the whole experience. Now I must find my next lover.
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