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Is A Genuine Gay Relationship Or Friendship Even Possible?

30th November 2020 - 2:43 | London, Nw London


I don’t/have never had any gay friends or at least none that would admit it. I’m not part of the gay world. All I know is what I see on TV. I tried a gay club a few times, it didn’t go well... I am a tall, strong, well built, quite muscular black male and in a practically all white gay environment, I was either ignored or asked for sex... After my third time in 2016, I never and don’t plan to go back…

I used to post in the men seeking men section of Craigslist. I realised relationships where not possible. I met several men over the years and had a bit of fun. I mostly met older bi-curious, straight and married men, which I prefer as they are respectful, kind, open-minded and willing to please me, unlike the gay ones I met. I wanted to find friends in the platonic section of Craigslist... I made the big mistake of describing myself. I mentioned some of my interests but not my sexuality... The people I met were all desperate gay men. They would look at me in lust, ask me sexual questions, make sexual advances, invite me to their place etc. I don’t have sex with just any random men I just meet, or that pays me a complement, especially if they are of absolutely no sexual interest to me...

The men I come into contact with lately have nothing but sex to offer. I don’t care how deep your throat is or how tight your hole is. I like various races but I’m not a sex object here to fulfil any interracial BBC fantasies e.g. “Blacks On Boys” or “Blacks On Blondes”. If you’re attracted to black men, great, but if it’s purely sexual don’t bother. If you’re only interested in sex, I won’t give you the time of day… It doesn’t impress me or turn me on. I’m in my 30s. I have responsibilities, ambition and goals in life. Sex is not a priority. It would be nice if these men were not so creepy, unattractive and forward, but the desperation alone is just such a turn off… Besides desperate men don’t care about or even know anything about their current sexual health so there is an added risk factor involved…

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