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A GENTLE, Sensual Bottom Warming, Madam?

27th March 2024 - 12:56 | Dorset, Poole


Hello, it's important to say from the outset my intention is NOT nasty, dark domination. What I have in mind is light, VERY erotic and VERY exciting; something that you WILL want to repeat. Genuine friendship, with an exciting and safe kink built in. Maybe you are experienced, maybe you are just interested...

VERY gentle; on your BARE bottom of course; you'll arrive nervously and go home surprised and smiling, with a red, pleasantly burning bottom: walking through a supermarket, VERY aware of your glowing posterior. You'll feel VERY naughty! Which you'll LOVE... Perhaps you have a mature aunt figure who has wished to send you for a light, bare bottom spanking for some time now... Perhaps she knew a very creepy fellow (or lady!) who offered this (perhaps someone who had spanked HER!) You have in horror and anger resisted for months or even years, but finally you agree to submit, out of secretive curiosity, subject to YOUR strict conditions regarding safety and limits, and maybe rewards of some kind... What do YOU want that you're willing to be gently spanked to get? I have one possible suggestion...

If you haven't done this before, it is, of course, terrifying at the outset: I will treat you patiently and safely, putting in the right preparations such that you enjoy the journey towards the activity, whether or not you end up receiving a spanking. I am NOT a pushy, demanding chap; more friendly; an equal, tailoring activity to what YOU want and enjoy. I have NO INTENTION of hurting anyone at all. If I give you a lovely time, you'll come back for more, and more! I'm NEVER going to impose an activity on anyone. YOU are ALWAYS in control.

One of the MANY delights of a bare bottom spanking is the walk home afterwards (as I found out aged 16 in 1977 at the hands of a pissed off local spinster aged about 40 using a school ruler, who gave me the choice of telling my parents about my poor behaviour or reporting to her house on a Saturday afternoon for ten strokes of the ruler on my bare bottom (I recall the barely concealed, lascivious excitement of the furtive lady offering this choice very clearly; the expression on her face caused me to become instantly erect - she REALLY wanted this to happen and was obviously VERY aroused talking about it happening;) Nervous as I was, I wasn't at all going to disappoint her, or pass up the opportunity to experience something that seemed as if it just might culminate in sex! So saying, still TERRIFYING attending my first appointment, knowing what was going to happen. I needn't have been terrified though; she was very calm and gentle, positively friendly and oddly sympathetic to my predicament. I'm sure that she saw herself as an ambassador for her kink; she wanted to convert me, and succeeded. She carefully, rather furtively explained what was going to happen, ruler in hand, and indicated that as it was my first spanking it would be gentle (my hunch was it was the first time that she'd given a spanking), then had me stand against her dining table and drop my trousers, prior to bending over the table, having placed a cushion in front of me, and putting my hands over the opposite edge. Immediately I felt embarrassment as my pants slid down and was then aware of the ruler resting across my bare bottom which was both exquisite and terrifying (a strange mixture!). The lady expressed an Oooooooh! Of delight which was amazingly horny and the first stroke landed. Not too bad, I thought; bearably stingy, by which time another two had made contact and I wriggled a little and was told surprisingly firmly but somewhat sexily to stay still. A minute later, all ten strokes had been delivered and I felt her soft hand caressing my burning bottom which was absolutely FANTASTIC and left me not far from cumming. She caressed for about 5 minutes then told me to get up and dressed. The whole experience was wonderful and ENORMOUSLY erotic). She walked me to the door complimenting me on having bravely taken ten strokes without complaining. I received a second warning that wriggling would not be tolerated and would result in extra strokes and she described my bottom as attractive slightly reddened, which was very, VERY HORNY. Smiling and flushed, clearly VERY aroused, she said "Until next time" and patted my bottom as I left, sheepishly grinning, thanking her and assenting to her comment, making certain that the door was open for a next time, with a GLORIOUSLY smarting bottom (has to be experienced to be believed!) and large, very obvious erection (she was aware that I was aroused, and pleased by this): the ruler strokes weren't that hard as she explicitly didn't want to leave marks - I seem to remember her actually using the term 'our little secret' - but hard enough to BURN in an INTENSE not to say HUGELY erotic manner, and having my pants taken down by this furtive, plain spinster was SO lovely; my guess is that she set out to cause erotic enjoyment and arousal such that the sessions would continue for as long as possible; by the third session she was well aware that I was loving every second of it. I left very, VERY aroused, thinking CRIKEY! Did that REALLY happen? I MUST engineer another visit! Which I did, monthly. If I didn't contrive a situation which made a visit necessary quickly enough, she seemed to concoct a misdemeanor, forcing my hand; even on one occasion simply opining that thirty days was too long a period to go without being spanked and asking me to attend so the matter could be rectified (VERY erotic!). A normal spanking was ten strokes, occasionally rising to fifteen or even twenty if I'd been very naughty (which happened by design, of course). Twenty firm ones almost had me squealing by the last three (she really enjoyed to hear an occasional squeal) and left me with a sore bottom for a couple of days, which I enjoyed. I absolutely adored these visits and am certain that she did too, going by her all too brief, gentle caressing of my burning, spanked bottom as she sternly intoned her hope that my behaviour might improve (my behaviour was never very bad, barely worth a scolding)! I rushed home to pleasure myself (all of 5 strokes to at least three ENORMOUS, HOT SPURTS of thick, creamy cum! How she would have loved to see that!) and I imagined that she was probably shuddering and gasping to a backdrop of buzzing within minutes of my departure! She never alluded to the SCREAMING sexuality of the situation: it was very much the elephant in the room though... Had I been less shy, or at all experienced, I'd have thanked her and kissed her which would, looking back, have resulted in LOTS of steamy sex! I dreamt of her fondling my erection; maybe she dreamt of doing that too, but it never happened. We were both much too shy to make a move, more's the pity. At that age I was awkward around women and things didn't improve until my thirties. These spankings sadly came to an end when I was 18, after more than forty spankings (about three and a half hours caressing my bare bottom), leaving me in a void which I attempted to fill spanking a couple of girlfriends, who both hated it. Both had agreed purely because of the promise of sex if they did. Gently pleasuring a demure lady complaining of a sore bottom (tenderly kissing such a woman on the lips is SO horny!) who is asking incredulously 'How ON EARTH did you get into THAT?' As I am gently working her to a big climax... Both lasses returned furtively for more, declaring themselves to have been naughty (nice!), in spite of protestations of dislike (they LOVED the lengthy aftercare! Perhaps YOU will: The aftercare is available without having to commit to a spanking, if you haven't been receiving any, er, aftercare for a while, please do feel free to contact me with a view to being discreetly, safely penetrated at a time of your choice, be that daytime or evening). Mmmmmmmmm! I have no problem at all becoming VERY ERECT! (Seven and a half, uncircumcised, described by former lover as chunky) and I can last longer than most and always use condoms. If you'd like to view, maybe even briefly fondle the appendage in question, that can happen: simply ask...

You might be interested in trying out the feeling of wearing a collar and leash; having me gently fit you with a leather collar before clipping on a leash (the leash might wait until session 2; things happen at your pace) and then continue with conversation... finding out how that very odd situation feels, just for about ten minutes in first instance, so quite quick... Wearing a collar: just fun - NOT intended to be me asserting or owning. Trying something new and VERY different to see how it feels... Wearing a collar is an activity that can also be undertaken with both of us in underwear, should you feel inclined! But starting fully clothed, merely having coffee and a chat, collared; gently verbally exploring possibilities.
Please DO come along and see what being collared feels like in safety, with absolutely no obligation...

I bought one ruler the other day: I was going to upload a picture, but all of you know EXACTLY what a wooden school ruler LOOKS like (but few if any of you know what it FEELS like, on your bare bottoms!). Do please cum and gently find out! Perhaps starting out by just laying the ruler across your bare bottom to see how that feels.... (wonderful!). No spanking, just a bare bottom with a ruler lying across it. Over in 5 minutes. No commitment: could be a starting point, could be an endpoint. Going to be INTERESTING!

The perfect respondent from my point of view is a respectable, dignified, slightly furtive woman (furtive, respectable women are a delight! Women determined to be civilised and decent, yet also VERY horny!), 28-42, who has NEVER done anything of the kind before, but ALWAYS fantasised and who come along, determined to try the activity. Someone who may be recently single and looking for a bit of a change, maybe a bit of frivolity... Has such a woman ever made contact? Yes, 2 or 3: All came round for initial chats to explain exactly what they wanted, all came to a first session and were gently bare bottom spanked, and ALL returned at least once for more bare bottom spanking and other safe entertainment. Have women come along who have decided against? Yes, of course; all have been able to walk away with no problems; when all is said and done, it's not going to be everyone's cup of tea! I can, however, provide alternative, safe entertainment! You may be single, divorced: at the very youngest 23, up to 48ish... You are within 20 miles of Poole and able to travel... Straightlaced singleton has a yen for a new, HOT experience...

Now might be a good time to send an email... If you've read this far, I'd VERY much like to meet you for coffee and clean, polite chat for just thirty minutes in the centre of Poole or within ten miles thereof, any day, any time between ten and three... Such a coffee meeting might be the start of a FUN friendship and adventure! Equally, if you find such a meeting ghastly, you can just walk away, saying simply 'Sorry, not my thing' or 'I don't fancy you' or 'that's perverted!' - very much usual dating protocol. If this is your response, it will NOT be questioned at all and things will be wrapped up safely and permanently.

My two priorities: SAFETY AND DISCRETION. And sending you away VERY happy, such that you visit me again and again, departing SATISFIED and possibly on occasion with quite a red bottom, which an 'aunt' may demand to inspect upon your return!

My hope is that you might like to try the experience of wearing a leather collar... Safe, quick and potentially ENORMOUSLY exciting! Just coffee and chat for 20min while collared! You might LOVE it, you might HATE it. If you hate it, the session can be cut short: there will ALWAYS be a simple, one word way of STOPPING a session.

Email me! Thirty minute coffee meeting at a café, after which you can walk away, never seeing or hearing from me again. Or could be the start of more talking meetings and eventually one or two physical encounters which may or may NOT include a light, bare bottom spanking!

My aim is to give you terrific FUN! So you cum back for more! My aim is always SAFETY AND EXCITEMENT! Thoroughly civilised, VERY, VERY horny!

Please do NOT try and make first contact by voice call; I much prefer an email or text to begin with. A call can happen quite quickly once this has happened. Be brave: get in touch! You won't regret it and might just make an interesting friend!

Dominic
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