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The 51st Shade -world class commanding male seeks sub female

19th February 2026 - 14:10 | London, Mayfair | Age 58


Veteran Dominant male, mature, world travelled, exceptionally independent, single, fit, mentally rooted in japanese ritual and discipline, multi lingual and sexually adept, seeks a new submissive female protégé for erotic high impact adventures. Think 'Eyes Wide Shut, 50 Shades, with a touch of Emmanuelle, Gossip Girl and Euphoria'..

Stoic 'OG' of the legendary '#Skin Two' fetish parties, habitué at the all-nude Cap D'Agde resort, former officer, restaurateur and CEO with indomitable will. I am not 'controlling' but commanding, blending respect with authority, creating scenarios designed to thrill, living a high lifestyle but able to pivot into cultural dystopia, underground scenes, wild abandoned revels or an elegant soirée with consummate ease. I have decades of commanding experience with a wide range of fetish, bondage, shibari, BDSM and exhibitionist erotic skills and adventures. Comparisons with the fictional Mr Grey have been inevitable.

You'll need to be 100% female (a REAL woman) free to choose your own path to my world and indulge at will withut the baggage of conventional inhibitions. Age is not the defining barrier, provided you are over 18+ and of sound mind, you can be in your 20s, 30s, 40s or even 50s. But you CANNOT be overweight.

Ideally you will be dress size (UK) 4.6,8 or a max of 10. I can relate to women UK size 12 IF they have disproporionately large breasts but otherwise that's the limit. You can be flat on top, petite, or sport GG-JJ plus. You should be capable of adventurous, sophisticated dressing ( I enjoy a lot of shopping) or a wild fetish Goth dress ethic. Leather, lace, rubber latex, shiny vinyl, fishnet or just plain 'near undressed' is all good with me. You MUST be a stockings wearer, either hold ups or preferably suspender belts NO TIGHTS. NO JEANS, NO TROUSERS AND NO PANTIES (ever) 100% shaven or waxed is essential.Any racial origin is welcome.

I am not one of those guys who think being a Dom is walking around in leather pants with a paddle.

My dominance is stylish, often spontaneous and ideally you will be the sort of woman with a total disregard for conventional social morals, and be prepared to dress and behave 'outrageously' to order, in all manner of situations (under my 'safety-assured' guidance). Oral obedience' anywhere, anytime' will be a necessary element of every encounter and sex will be private or decidedly public when I say so. I operate a 'no refusals' policy.

Bisexuality is welcome, as are tattoos, piercings, body art, unusual hair styles and colours and exotic fashions. I will support you dressing to please, with cost not being an issue. You are either a determined proven submissive or you have a strong leaning or desire to be so and are seeking something different from stale tropes and UK 'couples' clubs.

Exclusions: no couples, married women, findoms, escort services, photo-sellers, 'Only Fools' girls, 'online' relationships, BBW, P2P, PPM or commercial providers. Absolutely no males.WOMEN only!!

READ THE ADVERT BEFORE REPLYING. This is an advert by a MAN looking for a submissive WOMAN !!! I do not need any time wasters, fakers, scammers, couples or males pretending to be female. ONLY reply if you are (A REAL) female and serious about being a well protected and commanded sub, can set up a call, you want to meet soon and are truly interested in this kind of dynamic. I am NOT looking for a conventional girlfriend.

Cities to meet, London, Bham, Leicester, Nottingham, Cambridge or TBC.

About Me: I am a white British 5'11 tall 58 yr old gentleman in the UK with black very short hair, blue eyes, 42 chest , 32 waist, largely endowed, gym fit with slim athletic build, no tattoos or piercings. I have a commanding, confident and charming manner, and adventurous open minded (straight) sexuality. I will exchange photos with women if you contact me and we speak.
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