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10th October 2026 - 15:51 | Dorset, Poole | Age 65


Hello and thank you for reading my advert: I am Dominic, a mature, slightly dom guy in Poole, Dorset. I would like to meet a lady, or even two ladies (I've always had a yen to see 2, not necessarily together. Just 2 who are each fine with being one of three: possibly a couple of friends who have contemplated sharing a chap before), who feel that they might enjoy GENTLE erotic discipline occasionally. Perhaps in your youth you received this from a relative, a very creepy family friend, a boss or a partner and would like to recreate the bits of this situation that turned you on, without the bits that didn't: Perhaps a relative that you were rude to, and coldly asked you to visit one evening, and bent you over and gave you six strokes of the strap or the paddle on the bare; terrifying and lovely at the same time. Maybe it happened regularly. Forty years ago, quite a lot of this went on; rather less now, and if you want it you have to come looking at ads like these, where you'll find a stern auntie with a beautiful leather strap, three strokes of which on the bare will make you gasp every other week, softened by Auntie's agile tongue nimbly stimulating your cl1toris later, or a kindly chap who offers help with your behaviour, perhaps with a small wooden paddle, gently applied.... Perhaps, if you wish, the kindly chap will penetrate you afterwards, when you have regained your composure. You'll end up quite red; it's SO VERY nice to then go home and observe your red bottom in a mirror, and contemplate what has happened.

Twice I have broached the subject with a girlfriend by giving them a beautifully gift wrapped spanking paddle. The slow realisation of what's going to happen is VERY lovely as they effect horror, trying to avoid a bare bottom paddling and ended well twice, with two bright red bottoms and jocularly complaining ladies, each delighted that I had finally taken their kn*ckers down, albeit to redden their bottoms. SO nice to see a civilised, sophisticated lady suddenly realise that there's no way out... Both came back for more... I'm experienced, having attempted to spank all girlfriends. Granted, there have been a few that have angrily forbidden me; I always observe boundaries, of course. One girlfriend was regularly spanked by a female relative, and very early in the relationship she asked me to kiss her bare bottom better, which was beyond exciting! Gently kissing with a huge erection, long before I had made a sexual move; my first sexual attempt was to gently stroke and penetrate her sopping slit as I kissed. She was very pleased and contrived to be punished more often. That was 42 years ago. Another girlfriend used to get the cane from an old boy at school, quite lightly. One day he asked her to go to his house on a Saturday for a caning, and she was caned bare, which she LOVED. She was still visiting him monthly a decade after leaving school, for six light strokes; then, he died and she came and asked me, having heard this and that about me from one previous lover. This sounds made up, but isn't. It's completely true. To be approached by a furtive woman who intends to bed you with kink is GREAT FUN!

It's a new day in Poole: somewhere, an immaculately attired, slightly plump, nervous lady, about 25, is walking to an appointment with a delighted man or a woman who is going to give her ten uncomfortable strokes of a cherished implement on her b#re bottom, rather than dismiss her. It won't be her first such appointment, nor will it be the last. She'll make CERTAIN of that! Perhaps she has a boyfriend who vigourously attends to her afterwards... Perhaps her boss is the vigourous lover, or trying hard to become him, and she looking for any chance of that, including a bare bottom paddling occasionally, and tolerating a furtive finger exploring her moist vulva.

There will be many more such individuals than you might think... Women who are smarting, but wonderfully fulfilled! Lovely if you have been spanked, to be able to feel the discomfort for at least a day afterwards, as I know from extensive personal experience from about the age of 9 at the hands of a creepy, thirty something church lady and her leather strap, which made a loud crack on contact with my bare bottom. I was VERY scared the first few times... I'm SURE that she set out to arouse me, and extremely did for nearly a decade. I fantasised wildly about her w*nking me off; I imagined a powerful jet of sp*nk shooting out of me after about 5 strokes. Aaaaaaah! I'm sure she'd have LOVED TO! I've since been spanked by several kinky women who have w*nked me off, and s*cked and f*cked me! Lovely to get to the stage where a furtive older woman engineers a situation at her home and threatens a bare b0ttom spanking, at which I feign concern and ask her if she's serious... 4 or 5 did this and I'm sure they were comparing notes. Invariably I'm bent over, pants down, 5 minutes later, with studious lady gently caressing my bottom, knowingly causing enormous arousal while she furtively explains what's going to happen. Always odd to attend a woman's residence for mild punishment and find her immaculately attired, perfumed and very obviously aroused... very obviously wanting an outcome! I fondly remember the experience of being w#nked off by such a woman for the first time, aged 17: 48 years ago... Delicious! Having a slightly furtive, moral woman suddenly delightedly commenting on the volume of cum that's just issued forth is exquisite.

The delight for me has always been finding an unremarkable, ordinary, respectable but furtive woman who hides a bit of a kink, and has a hankering to play in secret occasionally: whose engine is SPEEDING, if you take my meaning... She has a use for a paddle, strap and p*nis. Furtive, single women who want to take my pants down! If this is you, near Poole, maybe I represent a safe opportunity, IF you can pluck up the considerable requisite courage... you can sidestep the discipline if that doesn't appeal to you. Just contact me and tell me what you DO want, and you might GET IT, if it's safe, legal and clean.

I hope that you have strangely enjoyed reading my advert.... that you are a little aroused, possibly needing a date with a buzzing friend... Contacting me comes with NO obligation of any kind and might be JUST what you've wanted, nay NEEDED for fifteen years... mightn't it? The start will be VERY gentle. Should you wish for something s*xual to happen before, or instead of discipline, that will be fine: nothing will happen that you don't WANT to happen.

Perhaps, now, you are shaking with a combination of apprehension and desire....! Perhaps you recall an incident upon which a creepy man or woman offered you a bare bottom spanking rather than involving police, employer or parents; you dreaded the appointment, but LOVED IT! But it never happened again. There will be a few of you out there, in your 40's now... in one or two female dominated jobs, female managers would invite miscreants to their homes on a Saturday to discipline them with a cane, crop or strap: surprisingly widespread. Did it happen to you? If you have an interesting discipline experience, please do share: I love to hear about shopkeepers and their efforts to stop shoplifting and prim ladies who hate bad language but LOVE bare bottom discipline! They all loved it because they were caned and strapped by kinky mistresses years ago.

You may text me on 07398 945696

I await your pleasure: Please contact me!
A short email to start with...

Yes, NOT fun to have to make contact with a slightly pervy (VERY horny, imaginative and skilled) man. In this case safe, though, and once the tricky first meeting is done, rather exciting. Possibly regularly. You will be treated with courtesy and care. You WILL have FUN, whenever you want it. If you want discretion, and you DO, you'll get it. I'll make the first meeting as stress free as possible. You'll enjoy it, once the first meeting has gone well.

I WILL NEVER, EVER EMBARRASS YOU. I probably will make you GASP; not by delivering a stinging stroke to your bottom, but by penetrating you and delivering a quality orgasm.

I stress once more: GENTLE, SAFE & FUN!
I have much experience of spanking, both as spanker and spankee: I am well aware of the fine line between unpleasant and very, VERY exciting: my aim will be to give you an experience that you will wish to repeat occasionally, when you feel that you deserve it! Come and see me! My aim is genuinely to please you so that you return again and again, enjoying what happens...

You are 25-45, local to Poole, single, and have been fantasising about receiving a bare bottom spanking for years... You are s*x starved... you are VERY nervous, having never done anything like this before, but want a short talking meeting to test the water, as it were. You can use me for s*x while you decide if you want discipline.
I have no intention of hurting anyone: my aim is to VERY excite and satisfy.

I don't want to see attached, but will see you if you've been given a decree absolute on the same day, should you desire. Sending someone's wife home with a red bottom is rather suspicious, as you may appreciate!

Well done for getting to the end! Do please make contact... no forcing or rushing. My intention is mutual enjoyment, and satisfaction. An occasional playdate with a careful, safe, considerate and EXCITING lover. Not terrifying, not hugely painful, GREAT FUN, with built in opportunities for you to say NO!

There are probably two or three of you locally, trembling with fearful excitement. Please send me a brief email, with no obligation at all. Dare you send me a picture of your b#re bottom? Or perhaps wearing tiny, lacy knickers? Perhaps you are showing my ad to a friend who is now laughing and insisting on taking the picture...

Dominic
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