What do to?
8th June 2026 - 14:36 | London, Finchley
My wife and I have been married for 20 years, she has a daughter from a previous relationship who is now mid-20's and has a boyfriend - and we're early 50's.
Back in our younger days we had a bit of a bohemian lifestyle, we'd had 3-somes and she has seen other men (with my knowledge and consent) and I have seen other women, again she knew and was fine with it.
Her daughters boyfriend was always making cheeky comments about my wife (not with me there, but I wouldn't mind, it's a compliment) she of course, tells me about it. We have no secrets.
My wife and I were chatting about 6 months back, and she told me her daughters told her that her boyfriend is quite taken with her, and she asked hypothetically if my wife would consider a 3-some.
I laughed my head off but realised my wife was considering it, she'd said they had talked boundaries that she would be ok with which pretty much boiled down to no sexual contact between her and her daughter, which makes sense to be, because of their relationship, so it would be about him having a good time as it were. I asked my wife if she was telling me because she wanted my take on it, and she was. I said if it was kept to boundaries, and there was no over-spill after the event it would be fine. We'd done that kind of thing before back in the day.
So slowly things started coming together, my daughter asked more questions, and my wife told me about it etc, and the conditions were set. They booked a Spa weekend away at the end of June (2-3 weeks from now), the rules were simple, for the weekend away they could engage with him alone, or together, but after the weekend, no funny business.
She wanted my agreement etc, and they booked the Spa. Now, the issue has arisen, because she's broken up with her boyfriend, she caught him cheating on her and was furious. Fair play, these things happen. Now there is an already booked spa weekend, and I assumed they were going to go anyway.
My wife asked me if I wanted to come, and a weekend away sounded good, I said of course... but she didn't reply straight away, and I said "Is there a catch? or something?" and she said she's spoken to her daughter and she also wanted to come. I said fine, we all get along, and I could see the look in her eye, and I said "wait, you both still want the 3-some?" and she said "We've talked about it, what do you think?" - I've told her I will think about it.
So good people of CrazyOz - What do you think?
One the one hand, 3-some with my wife and a very pretty girl...
On the other hand, unlike my wife I would be directly interacting with her daughter, my wifes role was always more "watch, take turns, enjoy" whereas I would be actively involved, I feel it's different.
So what do you think I should do?
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